Why do babies scream?!

I was just talking to a new dad in the office and his question was...why do babies scream?!! The poor guy was distraught! Well, this is Baby's way to communicate. Unfortunately, the louder the screech, squeal, or squawk, the faster the reaction.  Clearly, it is human nature to wonder what this demanding infant needs.  It is also human nature to react reflexively to this piercing noise.  Once Mom or Dad finds out the baby is not being mauled by a wayward cougar, the question 'why do you have to scream?' deepens.  Parents have to be trained to react to the scream in a non-urgent manner.  If it is not an emergency, the best way to approach a screaming baby is quietly and casually.  A good distraction is also helpful. 

Yelling or forcefully grabbing the baby is not the answer...then they truly do have a reason to scream!  Speak to Baby in a low, quiet tone.  Most likely they will quiet down because they need to hear what you are saying and this reaction may be so unique and new to them that they want to see what it's all about.  You may even throw in a lullabye or silly jingle. 

That being said, there is a difference between an upset scream and a loud screech. One is for attention because of a need and the other is just a form of communicating.  Get to know the decibels of scream and decide how to react to each. In any case, take a needed break as a parent.  Switch off between family members or have a friend come to your aid.  Your baby is not the first screamer and will not be the last!