Is a hug really so bad? I didn't grow up a hugger but I sure am one now and I wish society would join me. Don't worry, I don't go around hugging strangers, but I do hug my family and friends every time I see them. I have to admit to the non-huggers that I can spot you immediately. Even my friends who know that's "what I do" have a tendency to cross their arms in front of themselves or shout hello and wave before I get close enough to move in for the hug.
For me, a hug is just the next step after the handshake. A handshake is for the first time and every time after that deserves a hug. Society has taught me to be aware of others personal space and body language. If a hug isn't your thing, I can respect that, everyone is different. But...I would love the day when someone would very openly bring me in for the hug first. It doesn't even have to last long.
I love hugs!! They can make a day so much better! Perhaps those grumps you talked about before would be less grumpy if they hugged more often....
ReplyDelete